Up to this point, you may be wondering; what now???

Well, it is vitally important that you put all the steps we have shared together into a logical sequence and Stick to IT!

One must recall that it is us men who are qualifying her into our lives, once who we will want to begin sharing our life together. Most men allow the women to qualify us! This puts the ball in their court and you lose all control.

When we begin our journey with the woman we've have attracted into our lives, there is no doubt we have quite a good pre-conceived idea of what we expect our relationship with this person to be in the future.

We all may have the fantasy of the ultimate passionate long term relationship where you visualize the both of you rolling around over the sand, making passionate love outdoors on a tropical island, traveling or cruising the globe together?

I am sure that not any one of us will set out from the start that once they have attracted their perfect intimate partner, they are looking forward to a life of misery, poverty, ill-health and friendship with no sex.

Attractive women continually test us men by seeing how much they can get away with things as they are use to getting anything they want.

Most guys being the gentleman they are, give in and give everything that their woman wants and some more. This is a no no. Once given, they will expect more in the future and this is the first step of the man losing their personal power and space.

We men must never assume that our wants and needs are the same as that of women. We are programmed differently in our DNA. We should not be afraid of this though. Instead we should use it to our advantage. Imagine knowing how they think and feel, this alone will put you ahead of 99% of the men out there.

Most of us men have the belief that women are attracted to looks, money and fame.

Men think that all the communication is in words that come out of his mouth. It is a fact that words only account for 7% of the communication piece. 93% of our communication is through body language and tone of voice.

Women are physically attracted to a man that walks tall, with his shoulders back and head up always. This shows a sense of confidence that have in everything they do.

We humans are programmed to run from what ever that is chasing us. This itself creates a problem as we as guys feel the need to pursue them to make them ours.

We therefore need to learn to attract them rather than thinking of pursuing them. Isn't this a relief. Through attraction, not only will you save time, energy and money, it's so much more fun less the frustration and anxiety.

There is no point hang around with your friends and going to places where no women go if your goal is to have the opportunity to meet women. You need to go to where they are.

Begin with the end in mind. What type of women are you attracted to and you would like to meet? With this in mind, you will then need to think about the places they would like to go to.

Who says that women are attracted to looks, money and fame?
In fact, most women care most about how we can make them feel. It has nothing to do with looks, money or fame. We do not need to be a Brad Pitt or George Clooney. We have been given what we have so use it! We should focus on our strengths not our perceived weaknesses. Notice how I mentioned perceived.

Men tend to perceive conversation with mates as a form of competition or challenge-like playing office politics or jockeying for position in the passing lane. When we're asked a question, we don't just answer 'we want to give the right answer' (or the right excuse). If talking turns into a debate or argument, naturally we want to win it. If the conversation revolves around our partner's problems, 9 times out of 10, we'll move into advice-giving mode, trying to come up with solutions to the puzzle laid out before us.

There's no doubt about it. Men and women are wired differently. Men know this, yet they continue to use the same, ineffective tactics to try to get women. What's even more stunning is that they are surprised when those tactics don't work. So, just what are those differences and how do they effect the way that men and women communicate?

The answers may surprise you.