What kind of girl is your ideal mate? It's amazing that most men do not stop and think about this. It may be because most guys simply take what they can get when it comes to women. The good thing is, your learning the kind of game that will create options for you, a lot of options, so you better take a moment and think about your ideal women. You can go as far as writing down a brief description, just to clarify and drive the point home.

I think David D puts it as clearly and accurately as possible "women don't make sense" He's not being a women hater, he is just stating what should be obvious to us all by now: attraction is NOT a logical process, and women are not attracted in the way men think they should be.

To become better at attracting more quality women into our lives the first change has to be in our own thinking! This shift in thinking is a big one for many men; it may even require a small leap in faith.

Have you ever observed another guy, maybe a friend of yours who isn't tall rich, or good looking but seems to have some kind of power over women's mind? Its puzzled me in the past to see that they don't say or do anything very different from what I said and did, yet they had a steady stream of hot women in their lives, so what the hell was it?

I cannot stress enough that the underlying beliefs and attitudes about yourself and women is of the most important.

You look up from your drink at the bar or coffee at the bookstore and there she is, a beautiful women and another lost opportunity. How on earth do you approach a stranger with the intentions of getting her number or taking her home and start a conversation that seems natural and confident?

It is a fact of life: being proactive is key to success.

As I have said before, the popular ideas about dating are all screwed up. A first date isn't about impressing a girl with expensive dinners and asking boring interview questions! It is possible to be more interesting and spend less money while building more attraction with a woman.

The first thing you need to do is get rid of the boring job interview questions! Don't ask her about school, work, or were she grew up like every other chump she's ever dated.

We all know women enjoy sex as much as we do. The problem is women are constantly judged and programmed from a very young age that women are not suppose to jump into bed with a man too fast. You will hear terms like "token resistance" and "anti-slut defense" What these terms mean is she is putting up resistance because she doesn't want to feel cheap, but she want desperately for you to ease the transitions and make her feel good about her decision to sleep with you.

This can be intimidating as all hell! There is a HOT girl you would love to talk to but she's surrounded by a group of people, some may even be other guys. What to do now? All kinds of questions come to mind: is one of these guys is her boyfriend, are other people in the group going to be pissed if I talk to her, will the whole group just blow me off, and if they don't, how do I get some one on one time? The fact is most attractive women will travel in groups, so this is a scenario you must get comfortable with.

Know this right now! All your fears about rejection are irrational. You look at a beautiful women across the room and think: What if she has a boyfriend near by who is going to want to kick my ass, what if she yells and makes a big scene in front of everyone, what if she tells every other girl in town what a looser I was for trying to talk to he? These are ridiculous scenarios many have flash through their mind before approaching a women.

A single kiss can communicate everything about how you feel about your girl and how you feel in the moment. You can give her a light peck, soft and loving kiss, a strong and passionate, and so on. A simple kiss seems to be a simple and often neglected part of our love lives. Surprise your lady by planting something unexpected on her lips and heighten your passion with her.

In this article we will briefly cover six different types of openers: functional, opinion, situational, no opener, screening, and direct. Now these are some great examples from the mystery method camp, so listen up.

The opinion opener is a random question, usually involving relationships or something light hearted. For example: "My friend John over there just broke up with his girlfriend.